Can You Trust Your Lover ? Marry Him ?

When you have moved into a new city or neighborhood, you may begin to feel cowed being the new kid in town besides being quite all alone . As time marches on , folk in the neighbourhood begin to want to get to know you and you reciprocate. You establish a circle of friends and pull them in into an inner circle.You now have friends or acquaintances.With the plodding on of time you notice relationships undergoing changes some even turning cold.One of your new found 'friends' seems to be a bit unpredictable in his behaviour. While it can be overeaction on the one hand yet of late we have been witnessing senseless killings , people getting shot at for no obvious reasons and some who seem to succumb to emotional rampages . This kind of senselessness throws us all out of kilter – when is the next episode of cat and the canary ? It is no longer something to speak softly of !What steps can you or families take to be safer ?Does this friend have any 'background' ?Perhaps something that is being held back or kept unknown from you ?
There is a way to take the lid off - do a background check!You do not have to be a private eye to do a background check-one of the best tools to do that had been on the Internet for a while. Finding information of any sort on anyone quickly and accurately such as criminal , driving and medical records is easy on the Internet via Net Detective. NET DETECTIVE is one of the most preferred people search engines on line. Almost anything about anyone can be accessed.Family histories, criminal records , birth certificates,DMV Records,adoption records,email addresses ,lost relatives,heirs,unlisted phone numbers and a lot more. Armed with this in depth information you need not allow fear to gnaw or trouble you. You can steer clear from peril if you can call it that. But at least you can put your doubts to rest.
Almost anyone's past could be traced or checked by a staff or employee , criminal or even medical background check. When fear or suspicion pickets your conscience,you ought to check your friend's , or new-found acquaintance's past record before wading deeper and trying to bind the relationship/s. Don't overlook the spate of killings and kidnappings at churches,neighbourhoods and other least expected locales amidst our own local citizenry.It's wisdom to take precaution.
Armed with this in depth information you need not allow fear to gnaw or trouble you. You can steer clear from peril if you can call it that. But at least you can put your doubts to rest.To be wise to the times we are living in now check out the tools and resources available to you at Net Detective.It could stop peril dead in it's tracks.

It will also be worth it if you are able to forge one of those solid, lifelong friendships.

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To your future ,

Cally Rao

Stepping Stones To Success For Teenagers

How do successful people reason and think ? What drives them ? In the years I was teaching classes full of teenagers I got hit by a full gamut of problems and issues they had had to grapple and fend with.Many of them were emotionally or mentally paralysed because they had no clear clue of what was 'right' or 'wrong'. In many instances I wouldn't be far from the truth they were having these problems because of some element of parenting or the stark abscence of parental coaching.To help them through I used to point them to certain role models and how they clambered out of the pits. Here are some of other issues:

1.Dropped out of school ? Not my fault. Smoking crack perhaps? Not my fault ! Married the wrong person? Not my fault.To a certain extent everybody claims to be a victim of somebody, some situation, background or country and or religion. VICTIMISM is almost default thinking now. Victimism's overriding cliché ,the response to almost all questions about one's miseries is : It's not my fault! Victimism seems to imply that we don't need to take responsibility for the living of our lives - that we are what we are because of somebody's else's fault. Not quite.You are fully responsible for what you are. Someone else's opinion of you won't change your life.You cannot afford to sell your self worth to someone else's mere words nor so easily succumb to their assessment of you. You are you. Unique and original.You must take responsibility for your life and control your thoughts and actions and chart your individual history.

2.Yet another key is to be PURPOSEFUL or pursue purposefulness in whatever you do. Do what you love to do . When you get a summer job,yes, do it with all your might! Go out of the way. Excel! Make a difference. Be a team player . Set small goals and work towards them. Achieve, climb. When you are older these small wins will lead you to victories in achieving.

3.Being purposeful requires you to be mindful of the direction you want to go. WRITE down your action plan. Write down your goals . If you are not clear about your goals you are living on fantasies. I mean if you are driving to a distant place and if you don't have a map or direction you'd be wasting time,energy and money and may even just quit going that way.With a written map you'll steer your life towards an anchor , destination. Be prepared to pay the price for your success.You have to make your dream come true , breathe life into it.

4. Don't complain or tire of the work it takes. Be a beaver to improve your skills. Work towards being the best in your field. Study the experts and copy their best practices.When you have committed to your goal giving up will never be an option. You must be willing to do whatever it takes to reach milestones or benchmarks. NEVER GIVE UP! Top achievers go after what they want - energetically and passionately accompolishing their dreams. YOU CAN TOO.Not long ago one of the greatest statesmen of our times , Sir Winston Churchill gave this advice :"Come on now, all you young men all over the world.You are needed more than ever now to fill the gap of a generation shorn by the war. You have not an hour to lose.You must take your places in life's fighting line.Twenty - twenty five.Those are the years.Don't be content with things as they are.The earth is yours and the fullness thereof.Enter upon your inheritance. Accept your responsibilities.Raise the glorious flags again, advance them upon the enemies who constantly gather upon the front of the human army and have only to be assaulted to be overthrown. Don't take no for an answer. NEVER SUBMIT TO FAILURE. Do not be fobbed off with mere personal success or acceptance."

Walk With Peers

Character Is Something You BUILD

To your future,

Cally Rao

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Age Is No Barrier To Starting All Over Again..

More and more seniors are going into things themselves much faster than from the other age sectors. Great numbers of older people are launching their own businesses , marching into self-employment and entrepreneurism than they ever had. Even if the younger age groups recognize the entrepreneurial option, they take some time halting , pondering and divining to step out or not. Putting their passions to work: ex grad-school dropouts launch beauty companies , new ways to make pies , hit the trail marketing a recipe from great grandma or plunge into the ‘island complex’ trail – anything that’s an island they take a boat out to , to go and see it and put that information on their online journals.They have started a revolution of entrepreneurs building organizations based on purpose , dreams and goals. Shrugging off the years of monotonous and mind-numbing work , looking at the clock every hour, waiting for the day to be over they prefer the fresh winds of time freedoms . Moving on has greater satisfaction than listening to some fancy therapist on how to be happy in a hammock. They no longer want to fertilize dead trees. Cicero said “ Large affairs are not performed by muscle,speed ,nimbleness but by reflection ,character,judgement. In age these qualities are not diminished but augmented “
But there’s a slight sad tint to this. Many having no marketing experience are sustaining losses that they have not anticipated. In a globalizing world marketing has changed tremendously . It is no longer homogenous as it used to be. With the arrivals of TV , audio, video and the Internet the old ways of marketing have fallen over the cliff.

It used to be that your company was doing the marketing , focusing on itself – how great they are , their product and their features.That would have worked in the past.But it can no longer find it’s breathe today. Customers don't care what you or your company says.Instead, they want to know what you can do for them. They want to know that you will help them get what they want. The Wells Fargo/NFIB estimates that over the lifetime of a business, 39% are profitable , 30 % break even and 30 % lose money . Is marketing hobbling these tremendous energies ? Here is a school to grasp , adopt , practice and profit from …. from marketing.

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Vive la difference ,

Cally Rao

Don't Start A Business , Start An Income Stream...

Professionals advise that startups should do a careful cost analysis and consider every cost including hidden ones. Double this figure and prepare for a year and a half without revenue for initial outlays . What however if you chose a wrong niche/business or even a partner ? Can you scale the business and keep it moving forward ? Will retooling, further skill development become necessary ? Battleplan and Strategy ? If everything fails ? Can you survive falling down seven times and getting up eight ? Your self-esteem is your most important resource in financial survival. With the spectre of tightening credit , declining home equity , erosion of corporate, social and other safety nets coming out of the woodwork our cash resources could be at death’s door fast . There’s a better , less risky alternative. Start BUILDING AN INCOME FIRST , plant an income tree that generates cash flow NOW and when you are in flight THEN go into or build your business afterwards . Some people in my circle of friends are living debt free having worked with just Clickbank Products and Adwords Campaigns not long ago ! Here are two doors you might want to walk through on and make them your silk road to independence. Become a gazelle for your cause. No business had been or is immune to hard times but if your ship goes down this way you haven’t lost the Titanic ! Don’t stop too long to smell the flowers ; get down to what Mark Twain , the writer – lecturer said :
“ Twenty years from now you will be more disappointed by the things you didn’t do than by the ones you did. So throw off the bowlines. Sail away from the safe harbour. Catch the trade winds in your sails. Explore. Dream . ” [ 1835 – 1910 ]

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